As we kick off the New Year many of us will have made resolutions. I know I have. Eat less...exercise more...take up skydiving. Resolutions are hard to think up and even harder to keep up. Especially the ones that really matter.
Every single year, one of the resolutions that I try and make, is a pretty important one.
It’s the resolution that goes “I’m going to have that conversation with that friend”. (You know, that conversation, the one that starts... “I’m a Christian and I love Jesus and I want you to know how great He is....” Or words to that effect).
Wow. That can be a biggy. We all know how hard it can be. Even the idea of it brings me out in a slight sweat as I wonder how I’m supposed to even start that conversation and I’m sure I’m not alone in that.
We always think that we need to have every answer, or be ready for every and any question....
But you know what, we forget that it’s not down to us really is it?
It’s remembering, as it says in Isaiah 55:11, that ‘As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.”
Alex, a fresher at Bath University, decided to run Student Alpha for his housemates in his kitchen during his fresher year. He says, “I remember sitting in my kitchen, thinking “none of them will come now”, kicking myself after sending a really soppy message, telling them how I ‘had to tell them about Jesus!’.
But by God’s grace, that first week, all but 1 of my 20 flatmates rocked up! And I mean agnostics, strong atheists; people who I never thought would ever be interested.
And from that week on, around 9 to 14 of would come along to discuss ‘The meaning of life’.

What amazed me most was their response. It was just so unexpected. Although a few wouldn’t be able to make every week, they were all really interested about God. Some of them would even bring their friends along.”
Even if we don’t have the boldness of Alex, the speaking skills of Crofty, or the on stage style skills of Mike, we can still tell others about the good news we have can’t we? God’s word goes out, and it says it won’t return empty.
Take Beth’s story for example. She says, “As I cast my mind back to the first day I moved into halls, I remember meeting all my housemates, checking out each other’s rooms and working out who got which shelf in the fridge… you know the score.
And somehow within the first few minutes of meeting one of my housemates, we got talking about how I was a Christian... I didn’t have a planned-out strategy of how I would ‘break it to them’ that I was some ‘Jesus nutter’, but I knew that I didn’t want my faith to be a secret either.
In fact, it was a couple of Bible verses scribbled on post-it notes that caught my housemate’s eye. I’d stuck them up on my wall as they were a few of my favourite verses that encouraged me. He asked me what they meant…
The secret was out and soon my other housemates and course mates learnt about my faith.”
So maybe it’s not about a deep resolution after all, perhaps all we need to do is pray and ask God for some conversation starters – not uber cringe, ‘that is so awkward’ starters, but natural, ‘actually they asked me’, sort of starters.
That is literally it. Suddenly having that conversation got a whole lot simpler.
Student Alpha are all about listening and journeying with their friends. They are about asking the big questions and seeing what others think. All of the resources for Student Alpha are available to download or FREE (including some pretty excellent testimonies and ideas to help you run your course) and now, to top that all off, there’s a shiny new DVD as well!
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